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March/05:
Are Men Bothered By Sex Toys?

Category: Sex Toys

by nutzlady

I have been dating this man for several months and we have been having sex for a while now. Last night, I decided to spice things up and pulled out my vibrator. Much to my surprise, his reaction wasn't good. He looked at me as if I was some kind of pervert and made up an excuse to leave.

I don't really understand this. Vibrators make everything better in my opinion. I am able to have multiple orgasms much easier. It gets me going good so that I am ready for some really intense sex. It seems to me that a man would like this. I am writing this to get opinions from men. Do sex toys bother you and if so, why?

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About the Author:
I am just a sex toy lover looking for advice.

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Comments

Patricia Lee wrote:

I think that some men may feel like they aren't doing a good enough job if you need a vibrator. Perhaps if you talk to him and let him know that this is just a *bonus* and doesn't in any way reflect on his abilities.

March/06 15:32:28

Rey wrote:

Many men feel very threatened by vibrators or dildos. It makes them feel inadequate or they are simply intimidated by a sexually confident woman.

If it is possible to speak with him, try telling him that you think he's great and you didn't mean to upset him, you only wanted to add a new dimension to your play.

If this doesn't work, try to not take it personally. He is the one with a problem here not you.

Rey

March/11 09:53:19

nutzlady wrote:

Just a quick update to let you know that things have improved. He is now open to the idea of trying new things and as a result our relationship has gotten much better. Thanks for the suggestions.