by S. Barnes

One of the best cunnilingus methods that most guys don't even know about and certainly don't know how to do is called The Count.

What is “The Count”?

Most women have a certain number of strokes of the tongue that it takes to get them starting to feel stimulated. This number is normally between 15 and 20 but let's not get too scientific about it. The key is for you stimulate the clitoris for that number of strokes and then stop for a brief moment. This series of starting and stopping after 12 to 20 licks is the essence of the count. You want to do this series of stops and starts using the count about 5 or 6 times. Hopefully by then she will start to show signs of getting very hot. After each series you may want to escalate the speed and the pressure by going a tad bit faster and harder the next time around. The count is all about getting her clitoris so aroused that it wants to come out on its own and join the party!

The count is best used on a woman who has a clitoris that is hidden underneath the clitoral hood and needs to be stimulated before coming out.

Sideways or Up and Down?

Use both. The sideways motion is done with a sliding tongue across the top of the clitoris until the head comes out visibly. When the head does show itself you can go right across it in the same fashion, side to side focusing on the top. Again, this is all assuming that your lady does not have a clitoris that is already exposed on its own without stimulation.

The second motion, up and down, is done from the front of the clitoris all the way up to the top and back down. It is almost as if you are taking small scoops of an ice cream cone with just the tip of your tongue. You want to keep that going consistently for the entire count and then stop.

What if she gets upset with all the starting and stopping?

The count is not for everyone. Some people don't agree with the teasing aspect of starting and stopping. One key to always remember is that you don't want to keep her waiting too long, 5 to 10 seconds should be plenty. If she gets really cranky from the pauses then that may in fact be your signal to go all out an take her over the top. The next time she thinks you are going to stop you give her a surprise not stopping. Instead you keep going and push her over the edge. You can't tease her forever. Give her the pleasure she truly deserves.

Fact: A woman's clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings, while the head of a man's penis only has about 4,000.

She is nearly 2 times as sensitive to your touch!

Your lovely lady is over 3 times more likely to achieve orgasm when you go down on her than when you have traditional intercourse. That's right 3 times more likely.

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